Many children on the autism spectrum may show developmental differences throughout their infancy, especially in social and language skills.
There may be some delays in spoken language or differences in interaction with peers. However, children on the autism spectrum usually sit, crawl, and walk on time. So, the subtler differences in the development of gestures (pointing), pretend play and social language often go unnoticed by families and doctors.
Here is information from the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) about three of the early signs of autism spectrum disorder.
Delay in or lack of joint attention
One of the most important developmental differences between children with ASD and children without ASD is a delay in or lack of joint attention. In fact, delays in joint attention skills are found in most children with ASD.
What is joint attention?
Joint attention is looking back and forth between an object or event and another person and connecting with that person. It is a building block for later social and communication skills. Engaging in many back-and-forth social interactions, such as exchanging a lot of emotional expressions, sounds, and other gestures, is called reciprocal social interaction.
Stages of joint attention
There are several stages of joint attention. Children on the autism disorder spectrum usually show delayed or absent social communication skills at every stage.
For example, here are ages when children typically use and understand gestures at the following times, compared with children on the autism spectrum:
By 12 months of age
Most children can immediately look in the direction of an object a parent is pointing at. They will then look back at the parent and mimic the parent's expression, usually a smile.
Children on the autism disorder spectrum may appear to ignore the parent. This can cause parents to worry about their child's
By 15 months of age
Most children can point to out-of-reach objects that they want.
A child on the autism disorder spectrum may instead take a parent's hand and lead the parent to the object without making much, if any, eye contact. Sometimes the child may even place the parent's hand onto the object itself.
By 18 months of age
Most children point at objects they find interesting. Children will look back and forth between an object and a parent to make sure the parent is tuned-in to what they are looking at.
Children on the autism disorder spectrum will often point to an object because they want a parent to get it for them, not because they want the parent to enjoy looking at the object with them.
Language delays & differences
Almost all children on the autism disorder spectrum show delays in nonverbal communication and spoken language. For example, you may notice:
A child on the autism spectrum may have words they use to label things, for example, but not to request things. They may use words for objects before using words for people or family members.
Most young children go through a phase when they repeat what they hear. Children on the autism disorder spectrum may repeat what they hear for a longer period and may repeat dialogue from movies or conversations with the tone of voice they heard them in. This is called
Some children later diagnosed on the autism spectrum will seem to have met language milestones during the toddler years. However, their use of language may be unusual. For example, they may talk more like an adult than a toddler.
Regression in developmental milestones
About 25% of children later diagnosed with autism spectrum disorder may develop some language that they suddenly or gradually stop using. Typically, this may happen between the ages of 15 and 24 months. They might also become more socially withdrawn. This change is called a regression in skills.
Screening for autism spectrum disorderThe AAP recommends that all children be screened for autism spectrum disorder at their 18- and
24-month well-child checkups, in addition to routine developmental surveillance. Research shows that starting an intervention program as soon as possible can improve outcomes for many children on the autism spectrum.
If you have concerns about how your child plays, learns, speaks, acts, or moves, don't hesitate to talk with your pediatrician. Remember, you know your child best and your concerns are important. Together, you and your pediatrician will find the best way to help your child.
Don't wait. Acting early can make a big difference in your child's development.